10 Winning Wife tips: How to keep yourself HOT in your marriage
There’s a video I saw circulating on Facebook a while back, it showed the before and after of marriage. The before showed a young woman wearing short shorts, a tight spaghetti top and a lavish hairstyle while she was washing dishes and dancing in her boyfriend’s kitchen. The video then cuts to show after getting married and the young woman is now wearing what looks like a nightgown, slippers and has African threading in her hair, you can also see she’s not wearing a bra.
Sadly, this is the reality of marriage. When we get married, we seem to think we can now relax and let ourselves go, we think the battle is over and we simply stop trying. Whereas before, you would jump for your lace wig to hide your African threading if your partner was coming over.
I know that marriage is hard and after a while you realise that love alone is not enough to keep you and your spouse together. But just because you’re married, doesn’t mean you stop taking care of yourself to attract your spouse like you used to, it doesn’t mean you should stop being the woman or man your spouse fell in love with however long ago.
I know this is easier said than done because the longer you’re married, the harder everything gets, especially when kids get involved. However, there are little tips and tricks you can do to be that sexy, attractive, beautiful, awesome woman (or man) that made your spouse want you by their side forever:
Tip 1: Shower Every Single Day
Tip 2: Implement a skincare routine
- I moisturise daily with a water-based moisturiser
- I exfoliate my entire body and face twice a week with a coffee and sugar scrub
- Wear a face mask twice a week
- Wash, cleanse and tone my face in the morning and at night before bed
Tip 3: Apply 1 drop of lavender essential oil in between your thighs
Tip 4: Grow your natural eyelashes
Tip 5: Exercise 10 minutes everyday OR 30 minutes 3 times a week
Tip 6: Cut and clean your nails every week
- Trim and file my nails
- Apply a nail strengthener which also doubles up as a clear nail polish.
- Keep my hands well moisturised.